Clearing up

My granddaughter called, upset, my ex-son-in-law's mother told her my husband had a daughter he did not know where she was at. This is not true. My husband's first wife had a daughter named Patty. She was not my husband's daughter. Patty was part of the family, as we accepted her since her mother did not seem to know who her father was (She had Patty a year before she met my husband and their marriage lasted only 6 months to which a son was born before they were married.) Unfortunately Patty passed away at a young age from liver problems, leaving behind three children. If the ex-son-in-law's family wants to discuss our family with the girls, please ask us first so you can get the TRUTH! Patty's mother has passed away a few years ago. So if you really want information on us, ask. Quit making up stuff or listening to someone who is not honest with you. Sorry to those that are true historian's of family history. But sometimes you have to put people in their place. I know the ex's family comes to my blogs, which really doesn't bother me. In fact I welcome it. Even though my daughter and he are no longer married, it does not mean they are not part of the girls lives, just as it should be. WE HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE AND MAKE IT ALL PUBLIC, UNLIKE SOMEONE ELSE WHO DOES HAVE STUFF TO HIDE FROM THE ... well perjury it has an unpleasant penalty. Most of what he is saying about us and the girls mother, is a control issue over your feelings. It is a great tactic when you want people to believe only your side. So ask others so you can make an educated decision. One that is not controlled by bias and prejudice. The girls do not deserve that and neither do any of us.